If you've been tracking your toddler's vocabulary, you've probably noticed something: they learn nouns easily. Ball. Dog. Truck. Mama. Cookie. The names of things stack up quickly.
But verbs? Action words? Those seem to take longer. And when they do come, they often arrive in a burst that coincides with something magical: the first two-word sentences.
That's not a coincidence. Verbs aren't just another category of vocabulary—they're the grammatical engine that makes sentences possible. And understanding why verbs matter so much can help you support your child's language development more effectively.
What Makes Verbs Special?
From a purely grammatical standpoint, verbs are necessary for sentence structure. You can have a sentence without nouns ("Go!" "Stop!" "Listen!"), but you can't have a sentence without a verb—at least not in English.
When a toddler moves from single words to word combinations, they're almost always using a verb:
- "Go car"
- "Truck go"
- "Push truck"
- "Daddy drive"
That verb is the syntactic hinge that lets them express relationships between things. Without it, they're limited to labeling.
But there's more to the story than grammar. Recent neuroscience research reveals that verbs and nouns are processed differently in the brain—and those differences explain why action words are so powerful for language development.
The Motor Connection
When you hear or say the word "dog," your brain's auditory and semantic regions activate. But when you hear or say "push" or "run," something additional happens: your motor cortex lights up.
A 2022 study published in Developmental Science used brain imaging to show that toddlers as young as 18 months show motor activation when processing action verbs—even when they're not moving at all. The word itself triggers the neural patterns associated with doing the action.
This is called embodied cognition: the idea that our understanding of language is grounded in physical experience. And it has profound implications for how children learn.
When a toddler pushes a toy truck while hearing the word "push," they're encoding that word through:
- The muscle feeling of pushing (proprioceptive)
- The sight of the truck moving (visual)
- The sound of "push" (auditory)
- The motor planning required to push (motor cortex)
This multisensory, motor-rich encoding creates a stronger memory trace than purely auditory learning. The verb becomes part of their physical knowledge of the world, not just their linguistic knowledge.
The Sentence Development Link
Here's where verb learning gets especially interesting for parents of late talkers: early verb vocabulary predicts later grammatical development.
A 2023 study in the American Journal of Speech-Language Pathology followed late-talking toddlers for two years. The researchers found that children who had more verbs in their vocabulary at 24 months showed significantly faster growth in sentence complexity by 36 months—even controlling for total vocabulary size.
In other words, a child who knows 50 words including 10 verbs is likely to develop grammar faster than a child who knows 70 words but only 3 verbs.
Why? Because verbs are the structural foundation of sentences. Once a child has verbs like "go," "want," "eat," "push," and "fall," they can start combining them with nouns in productive ways:
- "Truck go"
- "Want cookie"
- "Eat apple"
- "Push car"
- "Ball fall"
Each of these two-word combinations contains a verb that organizes the meaning. The child isn't just naming things anymore—they're expressing relationships, intentions, and events.
Common Verb Development Patterns
Most children follow a predictable sequence in acquiring verb types:
Typical Verb Vocabulary Growth
Stage 1: General action verbs (18-24 months)
"Go," "do," "get," "make"—these high-frequency, broad-meaning verbs come first because they apply to many situations.
Stage 2: Specific physical actions (24-30 months)
"Push," "pull," "throw," "catch," "run," "jump"—verbs that describe concrete, visible movements.
Stage 3: Mental state and communication verbs (30-36+ months)
"Think," "know," "want," "say," "tell"—these more abstract verbs emerge as children develop theory of mind.
For late talkers working on expanding from single words, focusing on Stage 1 and Stage 2 verbs makes the most sense. These are the action words that pair naturally with play and daily routines.
Why Vehicle Play Is Perfect for Verb Learning
This is one reason Talk & Listen centers on vehicles. Think about what you naturally say during vehicle play (learn more about why vehicles are so effective for language learning):
- "The truck goes up the ramp"
- "Push the car"
- "The train stops"
- "Drive to the garage"
- "Crash! The car fell down"
- "The ambulance speeds to help"
Vehicle play naturally elicits action language. And because the vehicles are moving, the verbs are embodied—children can see, hear, and feel the actions while learning the words.
Compare this to flashcard vocabulary drills, which tend to emphasize nouns in static images. There's nothing wrong with teaching nouns, but isolated noun learning doesn't build sentence structure the way verb-rich play does.
Practical Verb-Building Strategies
You don't need special materials to emphasize verbs. Here are evidence-based approaches:
Narrate actions in real time
"We're walking to the park!" "You're eating your snack!" "Daddy's cooking dinner!" Connect verbs to what's happening right now.
Use simple sentence frames
"[Noun] + [verb]" is the most important early pattern. "Car goes." "Baby sleeps." "Dog runs." Keep it simple and repetitive.
Pair verbs with physical actions
When teaching "jump," jump together. When teaching "push," push things together. The motor experience strengthens the word learning.
Ask action questions
Instead of "What's that?" (which prompts a noun), ask "What's happening?" or "What's the truck doing?" This encourages verb use.
Accept gesture + word combinations
If your child points and says "go," that's a proto-sentence! They're expressing "I want to go" or "The car goes." Honor that communication.
From Verbs to Grammar
As verb vocabulary grows, you'll start hearing more complex structures emerge naturally:
- Verb + noun: "Push truck"
- Subject + verb: "Daddy drive"
- Verb + particle: "Go up," "Fall down"
- Subject + verb + object: "I push car"
- Negation: "No go," "Don't want"
- Questions: "Where go?" "What doing?"
You don't need to explicitly teach these patterns. Once children have a critical mass of verbs (research suggests around 10-15), the patterns start appearing spontaneously. Their brains are wired to extract grammatical rules from the input they hear.
Your job is simply to provide rich verb input through narration, play, and responsive conversation.
When to Seek Extra Support
Most late talkers catch up once their verb vocabulary starts growing. But if your child is past 30 months and still not using any action words, or if they have many nouns but can't combine words, it may be worth consulting a speech-language pathologist.
SLPs have specific strategies for boosting verb learning, including focused stimulation (repeatedly modeling target verbs in play) and verb-focused recasting (expanding your child's utterances to include verbs: child says "truck," you say "truck goes!").
The Bottom Line
Nouns are the labels on the world's objects. But verbs? Verbs are the actions, the movement, the life of language. They're what transform vocabulary into communication.
When your child learns to say "go," they're not just learning another word—they're learning the engine of grammar. They're learning how to express what happens, what they want, what they see.
So the next time you're playing with vehicles, don't just label them. Drive them. Push them. Crash them. Stop them. Go again.
Those action words? They're building sentences, one verb at a time.
Important Notice: This content is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Little Wheels is not a medical service. If you have concerns about your child's speech development, consult your pediatrician or a licensed speech-language pathologist for proper evaluation and guidance.
Further Reading
- Talk & Listen App - Vehicle-based verb learning through action play
- Why 'Vroom' and 'Beep' Are Secret Weapons for Toddler Speech - Sound words and early language
- Is Your Toddler a Late Talker? - Understanding speech development milestones


